What characteristics am I looking for in my partner?

5 important keys  in  every relationship

Relationships are too sensitive. The definition of love is different for every person. Each relationship has its joys, sufferings and lessons. But when you are in a relationship, you should take care of your partner as well as yourself. So there are 5 things which you need in your relationship,

  • LOVE

  • RESPECT

  • VALUE

  • PRIORITY

  • CARE

Those things are equally important in every relationship.

 

LOVE

For me, love is a feeling and emotions. Love a person because of who they are. Love is a bridge between two people. Relationships are built with love. Many times when we love someone, we fall for their words not their action. And that’s the reason for many breakups. Love needs time. You have to wait for the other person to show their love with their behaviour.  It is easy to tell someone I love you and difficult to show. When you love the right person, you feel safe with them. The person who actually loves you; never judge you. Be with someone, you can be yourself and not pretend to be someone.

 

RESPECT

In a relationship love is essential but if you don’t respect your partner then love is absurd. Every individual has their own space of comfort. And you have to understand that. They should not control you as their own property. you support them on their decision and also they do the same. When you are downward in your life they give you mental support. They never let you feel down. In a relationship, it is also important to respect each other’s family.

 

VALUE

Is your partner afraid of losing you? If someone gives you importance in their life; they keep trying to be with you no matter how hard the situation is. You’re lucky if your partner gives you the value which you honestly expect. You wouldn’t allow someone to devalue your worth. If your partner values You then they give you the appreciation you deserve. They do not hide things from you and always be honest with their feelings.

 

PRIORITY

Our life is busy but in this busy schedule, we have to take some time for our loved ones. You can feel it if you’re on their priority list or not. We all want to spend our special occasion with our partner. But in many relationships, we show that one partner is excited & the other one doesn’t even remember. We do have to make excuses but in reality, it is about the priority.  Yes, it is possible that sometimes when bad things happen we forget but not all the time. Your partner always fights for your relationship. If your partner gives you priority then they never hide your relationship from anyone. They feel proud of you and your relationship. 

 

CARE

IT is the cutest thing in every relationship. This is so romantic when your partner is taking care of you. Care about each other is essential in a relationship. When someone cares about you that shows their love toward you.  They will never hurt you if they care about you. To care for someone means,

  •  You should look after that person
  • To feel affection for that person
  • You make them feel happy
  • To take care of physically and emotionally

 

NOTE

All the above things I mentioned are my point of view. Everyone has their perspective in a relationship.  All the things I learned from my past relationships. 

What I am looking for in a partner may not have the same characteristics you are looking for. So before starting a relationship you should know what you are looking for in a relationship.

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