Don’t say I love you until you know those 8 things. When we love someone we want to start a relationship with that person. But before making any mistake you should consider some points,
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Be Yourself
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Keeping Secrets
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You Are a Choice or an Option
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Looking for Perfection
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Is It Only About Sex
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You are a Priority
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Is It About Money
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With Someone to Fulfill Yourself
1.Be Yourself
Everyone wants to be with someone who loves them for being who they are. You have to be clear at the beginning of your relationship that your partner does not want to change you according to their needs. In a relationship, you must be your own person. Both of you need your personal space and time. It’s ok if you’re not agreeing with your partner in every situation. Loving someone doesn’t mean that you agree with them all the time even if you do not want to. If you’re not comfortable with something then you feel free to talk to your partner.
2.Keeping Secrets
In those days relationships fall apart because of too many secrets. Keeping secrets from your partner is a betrayal. Relationships are destroyed by secrets and lies. If your partner keeps secrets from you then it is hard to emotionally attach with them. Trust is the key to any relationship. When you lie to your partner then the trust is broken and also your relationship. Being truthful with your partner is essential to every relationship.
3.You’re a Choice or an Option
Make sure you’re not an option but a choice for your partner. When we are in love, we forget about our pride, our value, our sense of right or wrong and do whatever our heart wishes. That results in ultimate heartbreak. But never underestimate yourself, accept less than what you deserve and be satisfied with it. If you sacrificed everything then they won’t have to do any effort to get you or keep you. They won’t choose you, when there is no one then they come to you because you’re an option for them.
4.Looking for Perfection
You have to understand that no one is perfect. No one has a perfect relationship. We make mistakes and overcome them. A perfect relationship is, where you don’t have to pretend to be someone else around your partner. You have to be with someone who knows that you’re not perfect but treats you like who you are.
5.Is It Only About Sex
Is your relation all about sex? A lot of time we do not realise that our relationship is not about love but only just for sex. You may have a great sex life but lack of emotional attachment. If a person is in a relationship because of sex then they never value your feelings. You deserve to be with someone who makes you feel safe in a relationship.
6.You are a Priority
Priority is which you deal with first because it is important to you. We prioritize people in our life according to how valuable they are for us. Just because we love someone does not mean they will love us in the same way. A lot of relationships fall apart because one gives all effort and another just benefited from it. So making your relationship a priority is most significant.
7.Is It about Money
Is money important in life? To be honest, yes money is necessary for everyone’s life. But if someone is in a relationship with you because of money that is unfair. It is ok to help your partner financially when they need it but do not make that a habit.
8.With Someone to Fulfill Yourself
Never looking for a partner to fulfil yourself. At first, you learn how to love yourself, how to enjoy your own company rather than looking for a partner. If you’re not enjoying your own self then how can someone fulfil yourself? A relationship can not fulfil you only you can. That’s how you truly enjoy the time with your partner.